Found Bigger Condoms in Girlfriend's Room, Help
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Sorry for the late update.
Update: I get to her her house and we talk and eat like normal. Soon after eating we, I ask her to join me on the couch. She comes over and sits down. She looks comfortable so we start talking. Main points of the conversation:
- I apologize for Sunday night, how I made her uncomfortable. How I sprung it on her without asking her.
-She says it was a lot and was pretty overwhelmed
-I tell her she can always be honest with me
-I say if it made you uncomfortable and you didn't like it, we don't have to do it again.
-She told me that she felt really guilty imagining someone else and me and getting turned on.
-I tell her that she doesn't need to feel guilty, I wanted her to think of that, so it's not her fault.
-I also tell her I thought it would be easier for her to imagine instead of talking about her past but I was wrong.
-She also tells me that she didn't know how to feel after cumming, like post-nut clarity hit her and she was feeling like wtf was that, what did I just do?
-She also said that feeling me so turned on was super arousing.
-I tell her it was super hot seeing her like that, but we won't do it again if she doesn't want.
-She says that she did enjoy it while it was happening but felt awkward afterward.
-I reply that conversations like this make talking about sex less awkward.
-She says the overall, she liked it while it was happened but not after as she didn't have time to process it.
The conversation had more to it than this but these were the main talking points. I would say the convo went pretty well. It was a little weird at first but once we got talking, it felt good opening up. I believe she felt the same. I didn't push at all towards my fantasy. I didn't ask her about next time or anything like that, just tried to listen to her feelings. We also didn't have sex on Tuesday.
Wednesday: We hung out tonight and slept together. Was pretty good, only did our normal things.
Update: I get to her her house and we talk and eat like normal. Soon after eating we, I ask her to join me on the couch. She comes over and sits down. She looks comfortable so we start talking. Main points of the conversation:
- I apologize for Sunday night, how I made her uncomfortable. How I sprung it on her without asking her.
-She says it was a lot and was pretty overwhelmed
-I tell her she can always be honest with me
-I say if it made you uncomfortable and you didn't like it, we don't have to do it again.
-She told me that she felt really guilty imagining someone else and me and getting turned on.
-I tell her that she doesn't need to feel guilty, I wanted her to think of that, so it's not her fault.
-I also tell her I thought it would be easier for her to imagine instead of talking about her past but I was wrong.
-She also tells me that she didn't know how to feel after cumming, like post-nut clarity hit her and she was feeling like wtf was that, what did I just do?
-She also said that feeling me so turned on was super arousing.
-I tell her it was super hot seeing her like that, but we won't do it again if she doesn't want.
-She says that she did enjoy it while it was happening but felt awkward afterward.
-I reply that conversations like this make talking about sex less awkward.
-She says the overall, she liked it while it was happened but not after as she didn't have time to process it.
The conversation had more to it than this but these were the main talking points. I would say the convo went pretty well. It was a little weird at first but once we got talking, it felt good opening up. I believe she felt the same. I didn't push at all towards my fantasy. I didn't ask her about next time or anything like that, just tried to listen to her feelings. We also didn't have sex on Tuesday.
Wednesday: We hung out tonight and slept together. Was pretty good, only did our normal things.
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To me, it seems like many (most?) women think that if their man wants to share them with with another man either:
Want to sleep with someone else, "if you scratch ny back...)
Is not really in love with then anymore.
Im trying to explain the concept of compersion for my wife. I love her so much that i could consider sharing her. She does not really get why I would grant her that, and she would never accept sharing me with any other women. She is now on the fence regarding have another guy. I know she wants to, but she does not want to ruin our marriage.
Op you are on the right track. Mixing dirty talk in the bed with serious discussions out of the bedroom is the way to go, atleast I think so...
Want to sleep with someone else, "if you scratch ny back...)
Is not really in love with then anymore.
Im trying to explain the concept of compersion for my wife. I love her so much that i could consider sharing her. She does not really get why I would grant her that, and she would never accept sharing me with any other women. She is now on the fence regarding have another guy. I know she wants to, but she does not want to ruin our marriage.
Op you are on the right track. Mixing dirty talk in the bed with serious discussions out of the bedroom is the way to go, atleast I think so...
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Re: Found Bigger Condoms in Girlfriend's Room, Help
I think you are heading the right wayHenryB12 wrote: ↑Thu Feb 13, 2025 8:42 amSorry for the late update.
Update: I get to her her house and we talk and eat like normal. Soon after eating we, I ask her to join me on the couch. She comes over and sits down. She looks comfortable so we start talking. Main points of the conversation:
- I apologize for Sunday night, how I made her uncomfortable. How I sprung it on her without asking her.
-She says it was a lot and was pretty overwhelmed
-I tell her she can always be honest with me
-I say if it made you uncomfortable and you didn't like it, we don't have to do it again.
-She told me that she felt really guilty imagining someone else and me and getting turned on.
-I tell her that she doesn't need to feel guilty, I wanted her to think of that, so it's not her fault.
-I also tell her I thought it would be easier for her to imagine instead of talking about her past but I was wrong.
-She also tells me that she didn't know how to feel after cumming, like post-nut clarity hit her and she was feeling like wtf was that, what did I just do?
-She also said that feeling me so turned on was super arousing.
-I tell her it was super hot seeing her like that, but we won't do it again if she doesn't want.
-She says that she did enjoy it while it was happening but felt awkward afterward.
-I reply that conversations like this make talking about sex less awkward.
-She says the overall, she liked it while it was happened but not after as she didn't have time to process it.
The conversation had more to it than this but these were the main talking points. I would say the convo went pretty well. It was a little weird at first but once we got talking, it felt good opening up. I believe she felt the same. I didn't push at all towards my fantasy. I didn't ask her about next time or anything like that, just tried to listen to her feelings. We also didn't have sex on Tuesday.
Wednesday: We hung out tonight and slept together. Was pretty good, only did our normal things.
I can relate so much myself with your story, it happened almost same way with us
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Yeah, this fits what she told me. And she was also really overwhelmed by the surprise of it. We've been having these conversations in bed or on her couch as well.hwlurker88 wrote: ↑Tue Feb 11, 2025 7:21 pmMaybe after her orgasm she had some Post Nut Clarity and just felt a bit weird and worried a out what you think about her having an orgasm from it?
I always find intimate and embarrassing conversations to best be discussed while laying in bed and cuddling. The lights off offers a feeling of safety for her. We have our best conversations in that setting.
We haven't even talked about actually sharing yet but I'm sure this will come up then if we get further into this. And I hope I'm on the right track. Good luck with your wife.Bsod83 wrote: ↑Thu Feb 13, 2025 10:08 amTo me, it seems like many (most?) women think that if their man wants to share them with with another man either:
Want to sleep with someone else, "if you scratch ny back...)
Is not really in love with then anymore.
Im trying to explain the concept of compersion for my wife. I love her so much that i could consider sharing her. She does not really get why I would grant her that, and she would never accept sharing me with any other women. She is now on the fence regarding have another guy. I know she wants to, but she does not want to ruin our marriage.
Op you are on the right track. Mixing dirty talk in the bed with serious discussions out of the bedroom is the way to go, atleast I think so...
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A wee bit disclosure, before my main point. I'm not a cuck as i have not and never have had the temperament to be belittled by other guys or even play second fiddle to another guy. But my wife is a hotwife. The watching part of it does nothing for me. Been there and got bored within 5 mins and left them to it.
The entirety of my kink is in the listening to her stories. The more subtle they are, the hotter they are. Easier way to explain it i suppose, i like reality, not a real life porn show. So the flirty, the eye contact, the obvious attraction does more for me than the "he shoved his cock in me" part. She doesn't need to tell me about those things in great detail. That's for her to enjoy.
Oh aye, my main point, at 21 who knows where this relationship may go. I met my now wife at around 25. Not saying for a minute you should take this approach, but eventually the beating around the bush (no pun intended) part becomes laborious in the extreme. It causes huge frustration and you are both walking on eggshells. Hiding who you are, not being truthful to yourself or the person you are with is never gonna end well. Around the age of 19 it was one of the first sexual conversations i would have with my girlfriends. So if the person i was seeing at the time didn't like who i was, they could move on. Weirdly, none of them ever took offence to it or thought it was overly weird. But if it was obvious the person i was with was overly uncomfortable with whom i was, the relationship ended, usually on good terms.
Now, don't take this as me telling my gf's "you will sleep with other guys" because i wasn't ever bothered if they acted upon it or not. It took my wife over a decade to even open up to the idea, but she knew who i was from the beginning. If she never slept or did anything with another guy, it would never have been a problem. Her body, her choice. I also have zero interest in being with another woman. All my desire is about my gf/partner/wife.
A lot of women will naturally think you're setting them up for a fall. No matter how open minded they may seem, if this comes from you, the onus is entirely on you to provide the reassurance. That was partially why it took my wife so long to come around because she thought i was using all this to ultimately go out and fuck anyone i wanted or to dump her ass. Think of this logically, if the shoe was on the other foot, you'd be suspicious as to why your gf was saying this stuff to you. But you seem to have your head screwed on regarding this part, so it's all good.
Most importantly, be sure to separate reality from fantasy. With fantasies, the other guy disappears into a plume of smoke once you cum. In reality, the other guy is as real as you. He doesn't disappear as and when you get horny and cum. So soon into a relationship, you'd be taking massive risks making things a reality. As someone else mentioned previously, work more on securing the relationship long-term at your age. You'll get egged on here because we all love these stories. But none of us have a dog in this race, and some are even living out their fantasies using your stories. So take some of the advice you get with a pinch of salt. We get to turn off our PCs at the end of the day and get on with our lives, you are the person that has to live with the real life consequences should something go wrong.
The entirety of my kink is in the listening to her stories. The more subtle they are, the hotter they are. Easier way to explain it i suppose, i like reality, not a real life porn show. So the flirty, the eye contact, the obvious attraction does more for me than the "he shoved his cock in me" part. She doesn't need to tell me about those things in great detail. That's for her to enjoy.
Oh aye, my main point, at 21 who knows where this relationship may go. I met my now wife at around 25. Not saying for a minute you should take this approach, but eventually the beating around the bush (no pun intended) part becomes laborious in the extreme. It causes huge frustration and you are both walking on eggshells. Hiding who you are, not being truthful to yourself or the person you are with is never gonna end well. Around the age of 19 it was one of the first sexual conversations i would have with my girlfriends. So if the person i was seeing at the time didn't like who i was, they could move on. Weirdly, none of them ever took offence to it or thought it was overly weird. But if it was obvious the person i was with was overly uncomfortable with whom i was, the relationship ended, usually on good terms.
Now, don't take this as me telling my gf's "you will sleep with other guys" because i wasn't ever bothered if they acted upon it or not. It took my wife over a decade to even open up to the idea, but she knew who i was from the beginning. If she never slept or did anything with another guy, it would never have been a problem. Her body, her choice. I also have zero interest in being with another woman. All my desire is about my gf/partner/wife.
A lot of women will naturally think you're setting them up for a fall. No matter how open minded they may seem, if this comes from you, the onus is entirely on you to provide the reassurance. That was partially why it took my wife so long to come around because she thought i was using all this to ultimately go out and fuck anyone i wanted or to dump her ass. Think of this logically, if the shoe was on the other foot, you'd be suspicious as to why your gf was saying this stuff to you. But you seem to have your head screwed on regarding this part, so it's all good.
Most importantly, be sure to separate reality from fantasy. With fantasies, the other guy disappears into a plume of smoke once you cum. In reality, the other guy is as real as you. He doesn't disappear as and when you get horny and cum. So soon into a relationship, you'd be taking massive risks making things a reality. As someone else mentioned previously, work more on securing the relationship long-term at your age. You'll get egged on here because we all love these stories. But none of us have a dog in this race, and some are even living out their fantasies using your stories. So take some of the advice you get with a pinch of salt. We get to turn off our PCs at the end of the day and get on with our lives, you are the person that has to live with the real life consequences should something go wrong.
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ProfBaw = fantastic feedback!
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Brilliant advice and so well written, especially the last bit.
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Mini update: We had a great valentines day. We got each other some romantic/heartfelt gifts and had a really nice dinner (for college students anyways). We then had a great night at hers. I ate her out until she came, followed by her blowing me until I came on her boobs. Later on, we went for round 2. We brought out the blindfold and had more good sex. She was able to come pretty fast, with me finishing a minute or so after. Do any of you guys have an idea why the blindfold does this to her? Is it just the more intense feelings of touch or the feeling of trust/vulnerability?
There was no mention of my fantasy. Probably for the best on valentines day after all. Hopefully all you guys remembered to prepare for today if you do celebrate valentines day and had some fun with your partners.
There was no mention of my fantasy. Probably for the best on valentines day after all. Hopefully all you guys remembered to prepare for today if you do celebrate valentines day and had some fun with your partners.
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You are lucky that you can make her cum from fucking. Was every girl you were with before able to do that?
There are a lot of girls that can cum from oral and/or manual stimulation but cannot cum from actual fucking.
There are a lot of girls that can cum from oral and/or manual stimulation but cannot cum from actual fucking.
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Sounds like you have a great relationship. In the early years of my relationship with my wife we bought a board game called Monogamy. It's a fantastic game which allows you to share your fantasies together. I really think you'd enjoy and benefit from it. In fact I might go and fish it out of the attic for tonight lol!
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You are doing great, Enrique! I think she likes the blind fold because it puts her in a sexy place and adds a mystery element. Good for you coming up with the idea.
I butted in because I had concerns that you were concentrating too much on pushing your agenda too fast. You have corrected course.
Wonderful advice from ProfBawf. His marriage experience and mine are almost exactly alike, except that my wife never went down the hotwife slide. I shared my cuck kink with her early on, as well.
Maybe I have been my own adversary there because I focused our sex on her pleasure and learned to give her precisely what she desired. Love, enthusiastic oral, fun fantasy play, decent cock, and, eventually, two babies. My wife did embrace my submissive leanings, which for me is the source of the cuck thing as well. She loves being the pampered Queen.
Your girlfriend will be a great partner. I hope it works out best for both of you.
Best wishes.
I butted in because I had concerns that you were concentrating too much on pushing your agenda too fast. You have corrected course.
Wonderful advice from ProfBawf. His marriage experience and mine are almost exactly alike, except that my wife never went down the hotwife slide. I shared my cuck kink with her early on, as well.
Maybe I have been my own adversary there because I focused our sex on her pleasure and learned to give her precisely what she desired. Love, enthusiastic oral, fun fantasy play, decent cock, and, eventually, two babies. My wife did embrace my submissive leanings, which for me is the source of the cuck thing as well. She loves being the pampered Queen.
Your girlfriend will be a great partner. I hope it works out best for both of you.
Best wishes.
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I totally understand the subtle acts/details being a huge turn on. I'm also turned on by the cuck stuff, but I guess there is a chance that if it happens in real life, not fantasyland, I won't be.ProfBaw wrote: ↑Fri Feb 14, 2025 5:05 amA wee bit disclosure, before my main point. I'm not a cuck as i have not and never have had the temperament to be belittled by other guys or even play second fiddle to another guy. But my wife is a hotwife. The watching part of it does nothing for me. Been there and got bored within 5 mins and left them to it.
The entirety of my kink is in the listening to her stories. The more subtle they are, the hotter they are. Easier way to explain it i suppose, i like reality, not a real life porn show. So the flirty, the eye contact, the obvious attraction does more for me than the "he shoved his cock in me" part. She doesn't need to tell me about those things in great detail. That's for her to enjoy.
Oh aye, my main point, at 21 who knows where this relationship may go. I met my now wife at around 25. Not saying for a minute you should take this approach, but eventually the beating around the bush (no pun intended) part becomes laborious in the extreme. It causes huge frustration and you are both walking on eggshells. Hiding who you are, not being truthful to yourself or the person you are with is never gonna end well. Around the age of 19 it was one of the first sexual conversations i would have with my girlfriends. So if the person i was seeing at the time didn't like who i was, they could move on. Weirdly, none of them ever took offence to it or thought it was overly weird. But if it was obvious the person i was with was overly uncomfortable with whom i was, the relationship ended, usually on good terms.
Now, don't take this as me telling my gf's "you will sleep with other guys" because i wasn't ever bothered if they acted upon it or not. It took my wife over a decade to even open up to the idea, but she knew who i was from the beginning. If she never slept or did anything with another guy, it would never have been a problem. Her body, her choice. I also have zero interest in being with another woman. All my desire is about my gf/partner/wife.
A lot of women will naturally think you're setting them up for a fall. No matter how open minded they may seem, if this comes from you, the onus is entirely on you to provide the reassurance. That was partially why it took my wife so long to come around because she thought i was using all this to ultimately go out and fuck anyone i wanted or to dump her ass. Think of this logically, if the shoe was on the other foot, you'd be suspicious as to why your gf was saying this stuff to you. But you seem to have your head screwed on regarding this part, so it's all good.
Most importantly, be sure to separate reality from fantasy. With fantasies, the other guy disappears into a plume of smoke once you cum. In reality, the other guy is as real as you. He doesn't disappear as and when you get horny and cum. So soon into a relationship, you'd be taking massive risks making things a reality. As someone else mentioned previously, work more on securing the relationship long-term at your age. You'll get egged on here because we all love these stories. But none of us have a dog in this race, and some are even living out their fantasies using your stories. So take some of the advice you get with a pinch of salt. We get to turn off our PCs at the end of the day and get on with our lives, you are the person that has to live with the real life consequences should something go wrong.
Your middle paragraphs caused me to think about the thing I've thought about for a little while. About whether I'm someone who can just have cuckold fantasies or needs to be in some sort of cuckold relationship. Like, is it a deal breaker if this isn't a part of my relationship? Right now, I lean towards the former as I was able to stop fantasizing about cuckold stuff for a while prior to meeting my current girlfriend and the fantasies only came back after I found the box of condoms. However, it could be like toothpaste, once it's out of the bottle, can you get it back in? Again, not sure yet. My girlfriend and I are probably past the early stage in the relationship where we could just be totally upfront with stuff like this. That's why I've been taking it slowly in regards to my cuckold fantasy. I didn't think it would be fair to overwhelm her with that all at once. So if we do get further into playing/fantasizing how her past, I'll probably bring up the cuckolding part soon after as she will hopefully have gotten used to/familiar with this new aspect of our sex life. Like dipping her legs into a lake slowly instead of just pushing her off a cliff into a lake. And yes, I would do my best to assure her that this would be one sided, I wouldn't be sleeping with others. I'm aware of how often women think that.
And yes, your last paragraph is very good advice. I feel like the advice I've gotten so far has been very good and hasn't been extreme. If our relationship progresses in the cuckold direction and we actually start doing stuff, I know I'll probably get egged on more. I do understand that the choices are mine. While others on this site might want to push me towards certain things, I don't think I'm an idiot, so I can filter through the crazy advice. I know I gotta live with my choices and the consequences that come from them. It's cool if you get turned on by my situation and get off to it or live out your fantasies through me, as I have with others. Thanks for the advice.
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Only 2 girls that I've sleep with were able to (current gf included). And it only happens occasionally. The others were able to from oral/fingering/toy but not fucking.
I guess I could check it out. Do you think it would be listed on amazon?CuckBar wrote: ↑Sat Feb 15, 2025 2:49 amSounds like you have a great relationship. In the early years of my relationship with my wife we bought a board game called Monogamy. It's a fantastic game which allows you to share your fantasies together. I really think you'd enjoy and benefit from it. In fact I might go and fish it out of the attic for tonight lol!
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There are a couple common reasons women might enjoy this (and probably countless others). And you can test both!HenryB12 wrote: ↑Fri Feb 14, 2025 11:21 pmMini update: We had a great valentines day. We got each other some romantic/heartfelt gifts and had a really nice dinner (for college students anyways). We then had a great night at hers. I ate her out until she came, followed by her blowing me until I came on her boobs. Later on, we went for round 2. We brought out the blindfold and had more good sex. She was able to come pretty fast, with me finishing a minute or so after. Do any of you guys have an idea why the blindfold does this to her? Is it just the more intense feelings of touch or the feeling of trust/vulnerability?
The first is the sensory deprivation/focus. By eliminating sight, she has one less high intensity sense to process, leaving more focus and attention on touch. To test this, ask if she would find it exciting to also put noise-cancelling headphones on her, so she can't hear what is going on either. Bonus: the headphones can play something relaxing, or music, or even something erotic (like audios from the gonewildaudio subreddit).
The other common interest is rooted in vulnerability. To have no sense of sight means you can't know what might be coming next. To test this, you could ask if she would find it even more exciting to also have her hands tied, putting her even more at your mercy. For people that like the vulnerability stuff, relinquishing control (and having that trust validated) is extremely enjoyable. It's a great way to build intimacy.
Both of these are actually entire paths that have more points to explore, should either be of her interest.
Asking her is always another option, though I understand that doesn't always yield results as some people get uncomfortable and clam up when asked more directly.
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Yes it's listed on Amazon and has a better write up on there than I could give itHenryB12 wrote: ↑Sat Feb 15, 2025 12:23 pmOnly 2 girls that I've sleep with were able to (current gf included). And it only happens occasionally. The others were able to from oral/fingering/toy but not fucking.
I guess I could check it out. Do you think it would be listed on amazon?CuckBar wrote: ↑Sat Feb 15, 2025 2:49 amSounds like you have a great relationship. In the early years of my relationship with my wife we bought a board game called Monogamy. It's a fantastic game which allows you to share your fantasies together. I really think you'd enjoy and benefit from it. In fact I might go and fish it out of the attic for tonight lol!
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Yeah, we were both right. I asked her tonight and she said the feeling of not knowing but trusting me and the increased attention on touch. She also said she would let me know if she wanted to continue exploring this further. We have been more open with each other over these last few weeks which has been great for our relationship (and sex).ugcp wrote: ↑Sat Feb 15, 2025 1:55 pmThere are a couple common reasons women might enjoy this (and probably countless others). And you can test both!HenryB12 wrote: ↑Fri Feb 14, 2025 11:21 pmMini update: We had a great valentines day. We got each other some romantic/heartfelt gifts and had a really nice dinner (for college students anyways). We then had a great night at hers. I ate her out until she came, followed by her blowing me until I came on her boobs. Later on, we went for round 2. We brought out the blindfold and had more good sex. She was able to come pretty fast, with me finishing a minute or so after. Do any of you guys have an idea why the blindfold does this to her? Is it just the more intense feelings of touch or the feeling of trust/vulnerability?
The first is the sensory deprivation/focus. By eliminating sight, she has one less high intensity sense to process, leaving more focus and attention on touch. To test this, ask if she would find it exciting to also put noise-cancelling headphones on her, so she can't hear what is going on either. Bonus: the headphones can play something relaxing, or music, or even something erotic (like audios from the gonewildaudio subreddit).
The other common interest is rooted in vulnerability. To have no sense of sight means you can't know what might be coming next. To test this, you could ask if she would find it even more exciting to also have her hands tied, putting her even more at your mercy. For people that like the vulnerability stuff, relinquishing control (and having that trust validated) is extremely enjoyable. It's a great way to build intimacy.
Both of these are actually entire paths that have more points to explore, should either be of her interest.
Asking her is always another option, though I understand that doesn't always yield results as some people get uncomfortable and clam up when asked more directly.
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Something else you could try would be to either get her a good silicone dildo that's bigger than you or even get yourself a cock sleeve that makes your cock bigger and put it on while she's got the blindfold on and surprise her with the added size... though that might be down the road a little ways yet.
Believe it or not I'm still a virgin. I'm autistic & didn't know till 30. Blame my cuck side on dad's Penthouse Letters in my teens & women teasing me on Myspace @~20. Yes I'm 6'10.
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Most of all:
Continue to focus on your Girlfriend,
make an effort to understand Her and focus on showing your devotion and love for Her....
This young lady appears to be a real gem, just focus on making Her feel good and safe and wanted with you.
If you concentrate on that, you will most likely have plenty of time for the rest.
Sincerely
elina
Continue to focus on your Girlfriend,
make an effort to understand Her and focus on showing your devotion and love for Her....
This young lady appears to be a real gem, just focus on making Her feel good and safe and wanted with you.
If you concentrate on that, you will most likely have plenty of time for the rest.
Sincerely
elina
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I don't think I've ever seen that work in real life.jratt85 wrote: ↑Sun Feb 16, 2025 10:32 pmSomething else you could try would be to either get her a good silicone dildo that's bigger than you or even get yourself a cock sleeve that makes your cock bigger and put it on while she's got the blindfold on and surprise her with the added size... though that might be down the road a little ways yet.
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Elina is spot on!!! Focus on her!!! Don’t bring it up again, unless she does…….you have planted the seed, she hasn’t totally rejected it, focus on her, treat her lovingly, tell her she’s beautiful and adore her.
She will bring it up again, she knows it turns you on
Something you might add or do, without words, start to go down on her after you cum inside of her…….this could also open the conversation to your fantasy
She will bring it up again, she knows it turns you on
Something you might add or do, without words, start to go down on her after you cum inside of her…….this could also open the conversation to your fantasy
Re: Found Bigger Condoms in Girlfriend's Room, Help
Yeah, I'm not sure that it would work. Could try this later like you said but I would talk to her about it first.Dream Weaver wrote: ↑Mon Feb 17, 2025 3:44 amI don't think I've ever seen that work in real life.jratt85 wrote: ↑Sun Feb 16, 2025 10:32 pmSomething else you could try would be to either get her a good silicone dildo that's bigger than you or even get yourself a cock sleeve that makes your cock bigger and put it on while she's got the blindfold on and surprise her with the added size... though that might be down the road a little ways yet.
Re: Found Bigger Condoms in Girlfriend's Room, Help
Hi Henry. Have you had any further discussions about her past lovers?